Karen’s Blog
Sunset Point…my dear dear friend
My mother would swim at Sunset Point from the long weekend in May until the long weekend in September and if we had a warm September you just might catch her there a little later in the season. My siblings were not enthusiastic to head down to Sunset point...
STOP BEING SURPRISED!!!…his name was GEORGE FLOYD
White people...yeah you...this message is for you!! Stop being surprised…. Stop being surprised by racism Stop being surprised by systemic racism Stop being surprised by white privilege Stop being surprised by police brutality toward black and brown people Stop...
Mother of a Hip Hop artist…….a story inside the song
That year...oh that year. I think as parents most of us have them. That year or many that once you see them in hindsight you wonder what you could have done differently, what could have made it better. When you are in the thick of it, you simply are trying to get...
Love will see us through, even if our beliefs differ
I love stimulating conversation. I love conversations that make me think. The kind of conversation that makes me run headlong into researching more deeply what someone has said. I love to change my mind and I love conversation that helps me to do...
A Walmart Manager’s Wife….During a Pandemic
I didn’t marry a police officer, or a fireman or for that matter a doctor or a nurse. All jobs that come with an element of risk just by their very nature. I married a man that throughout his meandering career ended up as a Manager of our local Walmart store and in...
Buffet or Sit Down Dinner, Who are you?
During this time on Facebook, the games have gotten interesting. One of those games involved guessing which one of the listed ten jobs didn’t I have. The next instruction was if you haven’t had 10 jobs name as many as you’ve had and add one that you...
My Camino….Our Pandemic
As I donned my shoes and headed out the door for the 6th day in a row for my walk along the paths around town it became very clear to me how walking the Camino had prepared me as to how to act for my sense, sensibility and my soul during this pandemic. Today, in...
What I found today in my Christmas Decorations
For almost 30 years I have put out the same decorations. Some of them have changed over the years but some remain from my first Christmas as a young wife and mother. Others have slowly made their way into my life on different occasions, my second marriage and the...
What does it mean to be Canadian?
My life has been full of very rich opportunities to be completely immersed into the cultures and faiths of many different people. I have married twice outside of my cultural background. My life is richer because of these experiences and in many ways, I...
The Fattest Kid in School
A friend of mine posted this meme on her Facebook page and it inspired me to tell a snippet of my story. When was the first time someone told me I was fat? I remember it like it was yesterday. Grade one the boys in the class decided to have a competition about who was...
Life as a White Mom of a Black Child
My view from here..atop my soapbox!! Nope, he is not adopted, but his skin colour to the rest of the world is that of a black man. He doesn’t look mixed, especially to white people. I think that universally the comment we get the most is “YOU are his mom?” Yes, I am...
Happy Anniversary
We have now been married for 19 years, we did take a 3-year hiatus, but we never stopped living together. So I have decided that for 3 years of our marriage we lived in an open relationship. In reality that is what we did. My husband is likely one of the most gentle...